This day also recognizes those who’ve been angels to us. Sometimes we have a terrible day.
Whether it's bad news or poor planning, we all have them. A kind word, a hug, or even a pleasant atmosphere makes a difference.
Other times, days, even weeks, can be devastating. A loss, illness, or overwhelming news takes the wind from our sails. Those angels provide comfort at a time when we need it most.
The same happens to the people around us. We don’t always know what others may be enduring. We can be an angel in big and small ways.
Whether we know a person’s concerns or not, merely offering to join them for a meal may relieve their stress. Having someone to listen to often is something we need most.
Noticing someone’s efforts is another way we can be an angel. Letting them know you’re impressed with their stamina, talent, progress – fill in the blanks. These positive comments provide morale-boosting energy.
Any time we see someone in need, the opportunity arises to offer help.
Assist an elderly neighbor with lawn care. Don’t overlook the single parents when setting up play dates. Their children – and the parents – need social interaction as well.
Also, when you value someone’s time, effort, and presence, don’t hesitate to tell them. We may be individual people, but we don’t thrive alone. Look out for each other.
HOW TO OBSERVE
Be someone’s angel. Offer an ear to listen, a hand to lift them up, or a shoulder to hold them up until they can stand again.
Give patience when you least feel like giving it. Hear the pain below the complaint or the exhaustion under the frustration. Notice the worry, not the anger.
Look with eyes that see the whole person, not just the fraction of a moment. Hold a hand when there’s nothing else that can be done. Dry a tear. Thank an angel.
Use #BeAnAngelDay to share on social media.
HISTORY
In 1993, American author Rev. Jayne Howard Feldman created National Be An Angel Day to encourage acts of kindness.
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